Group One
	A	Your spouse/child says, “You really did a great job on that. I appreciate it.”
	B	Your spouse/child unexpectedly does something in or around the house or your room that you appreciate.
	C	Your spouse/child brings you home a surprise treat from the store.
	D	Your spouse/child invites you to go on a leisurely walk just to chat.
	E	Your spouse/child makes a point to embrace and kiss you before leaving the house.
Group Two
	A	Your spouse/child tells you how much he or she appreciates you.
	B	Your spouse/child (male) volunteers to do the dishes and encourages you to relax. Your spouse/child (female) volunteers to wash your car and encourages you to relax.
	C	Your spouse/child (male) brings you flowers, just because he cares. Your spouse/child (female) brings you home a special food treat from the local bakery.
	D	Your spouse/child invites you to sit down and talk about your day.
	E	Your spouse/child gives you a hug even when you are just passing by room to room.
Group Three
	A	Your spouse/child during a party shares about a recent success you had.
	B	Your spouse/child cleans out your car.
	C	Your spouse/child surprises you with an unexpected gift.
	D	Your spouse/child surprises you with a special afternoon trip.
	E	Your spouse holds your hand as you walk through the mall or your child/parent stands by your side with an arm around your shoulder at a public event.
Group Four
	A	Your spouse/child praises you about one of your special qualities.
	B	Your spouse/child brings you breakfast in bed.
	C	Your spouse/child surprises you with a membership to something you always wanted.
	D	Your spouse/child plans a special night out for the two of you.
	E	Your spouse/child will personally drive you to an event instead of you having to go on the old, crowded bus with the team.
Group Five
	A	Your spouse/child tells you how much his or her friends appreciate you.
	B	Your spouse/child takes the time to fill out the long complicated applications that had hoped to get to this evening.
	C	Your spouse/child sends you something special through the mail.
	D	Your spouse/child kidnaps you for lunch and takes you to your favorite restaurant.
	E	Your spouse/child gives you a massage.

Score Sheet
Your primary love language is the one that got the most points.

	Group One	Group Two	Group Three	Group Four	Group Five	Total
Encouraging Words (A)
Acts of Service (B)
Gift-Giving (C)
Quality Time (D)
Touch (E)